A request from my sister maisurah, I think I should share what I've learnt from the workshop. This gonna be a long one.

Secret For Muslimah :

1. Tauhid. Why? One must be a muslim in order for all her good deeds to be her companion in the hereafter.

2. Pray 5 times a day.

3. Fast in the month of Ramadhan.

4. Protect your dignity. Meaning to say, to protect yourself from zina.

5. Obey your husband (Not boyfriend) or parents (for those who haven't married yet) in the path of Allah. Meaning to say if they wants to to do something that Allah forbids, then don't obey them.

It is also a must to include that one should be gentle and polite. One good examples of those who have all those 5 secrets but isn't polite and gentle. They are those who participate in protesting for freedom. Like what had happen in some countries where men and women gather around and start protesting by shouting and such. Firstly, they are being surrounded by the non-mahrams too and secondly, your voice is an aurat.

A bad example:

And then she actually open her hijab just for this:

It is easy right? This five steps. But to maintain it, can you? This come to a session where we talk about "Me, Around Me and From Me."

Know your life objective, prioritize and control your emotions.

Life objective: We live in this sinful world as test from Allah. Like in our daily life itself, we sat for exams to prove if we are right enough to get into jc, poly or ite. If we barely pass the exams, we have to take another path which slower but in the end, we will still be successful. That is what we are doing in islam. We are given a lot of test and obstacles in life to prove if we are right enough to go into jannah. If we do sins, we will get punish in hell but in the end, we will still go to jannah. Only those kafir and munafiq will forever stay in hell.

How can we be a muslim if we didn't learn about islam? It is similar as how can be be a cook if we don't learn how to cook. It is stated also by the speaker that ISLAM IS NOT EXCLUSIVE. It is not exclusively for Asatizah or those who studied in islamic school to practice Islam. It is for all the muslim, be it if you are not called an Ustaz.

We can never run away from mistakes. Preserve yourself with Solat and good companions which brings us to the second part, Around Me.

It is your right to choose your friends. Never allow your family members to shape you unless it is positive. Love and Respect people but never Submit to them. Who is your idol? Justin Bieber? President Obama? or Maher Zain?

-Who is the first Singapore Idol?

-Who sang the song bad romance?

-Who does taylor swift broke up with recently?

-From where did Justin Bieber being recognise?

Almost all of you can answer that right? Ask yourself what has this people contribute to Islam. Now try to answer this.

-Who is Asiah?

-At what age did Rasulullah s.a.w died?

-How many times does Rasulullah goes to war?

-At whose lap did Rasulullah lay on when he died?

Alhamdulillah if you know the answer. Let's take Khadijah, Asiah, Sumayyah and the other Islam Women as our idol. Ask yourself, what did you do to contribute to Islam?

You see, in today's world, MEN are the ones who must be sent to go to war. They are the one who do the heavy jobs which could lead to death such as those dangerous jobs. They are those who were being ordered by their leaders, The Rich People. They are prone to death. Today, pornography is the 3rd largest industry in the world. There are 3.12 million prostitution in USA. Why? Because they lost their husband and that is the only way for them to get money. It is to serve those rich men. So why not save these woman by letting them married to your husband?

Secondly, if your husband can lead you and your whole family to the path of Allah, why not let him marry the other woman and do the same. You will give birth to more muslims and of course you want other woman to do that too. There is more woman in this world than men.

Some may say that they are not ready for marriage. What they meant is that they have no money, they still wants to enjoy and stuff. No money? Do you literally need $8k to $10k for a wedding? Rasulullah s.a.w married someone off with 3 surahs as a dowry from the men to the women as the men is poor and had nothing for dowry because Rasullulah wants to avoid zina happening to them. The speaker himself share about his life marriage. I knew the speaker well. He had nothing and he married to his wife with a little money as a dowry. His wedding ceremony is just to give people food to eat. They don't even have a bridal bed. He did that because he wants to avoid zina. Alhamdulillah, he is happy with his wife now and his two kids.

He reminded us to look for the religion in a guy. Not wealth or even good looks. And so when you are married to a guy, you should know that you have your rights.

I may be missing out some points but this is all I could let out for now. May this be a helpful knowledge for all of you.